After much consideration about what I would write about (because I know a little about a lot of stuff, but the term "expert" might be held in questionable regard if I ever so claimed to be one), I thought I would make the topic of my blog about what I love most: Having Fun!! (without breaking the bank), meeting goals, trying out new experiences, and in general, trying to make the most of my little pea pickin' life.
This whole thing came about recently due to some changes that have occurred which caused me to question what is most important to me. What do I REALLY want out of life? I'm 39 years old. The days of "When I grow up..." are done gone. I really need to step up to the plate and make it happen. After much deliberation, I came up with the following (in no particular order):
- I want my kids to be happy and healthy. For any parent, that's kind of a given, so I feel like a putz for listing it, or a schmuck if I left it off.
- To make a comfortable living at a job I enjoy. I don't need prestige. It's over-rated. You could work 40 years at a job and be the president of the company, but 2 years after you die, they won't even remember your name. And I don't want to be rich because I don't want to have to work that hard.
- A strong social connection is important to me.
- Hobbies are important also, to keep me from being bored when I am alone. My worst enemies are loneliness and boredom. I used to HATE to be alone, but as I'm growing old and lame, I'm beginning to like it, as long as I don't let myself get bored. (When I get to be really old and bored someday, I plan to get a box of ferrets to keep me busy.) New experiences keep me from getting bored also, so I'm always craving a new experience.
- I want to be productive and I want to give back to the community. I really need to start some volunteer work, and I will when I get over this procrastination phase.
- Mega-mansions really aren't my style. I want to live someplace cozy and comfortable, preferably with bright colors and lots of sunlight.
- And I want to travel.
WELCOME! I hope you follow me on my journey!
Amanda
I like your writing style.
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